A find too late to share with Evelyn

After years of seeking, in 2007 I found a ship’s manifest stating that my Grandmother Flynn and her family were registered as arriving on 6 May 1883 at Castle Garden, at the Battery, situated on the very tip of Manhattan Island. Castle Garden was the immigration site before Ellis Island opened in 1892. They arrived at Boston Harbor that same day. Did they actually stop both places, or was the dual entry merely a matter of book keeping?

On board the ship “Atlas,” were:

Coffey, Dan Laborer 23 M Ireland

Coffey, Margaret Spinster 19 F Ireland (my grand mother!)

Coffey, Margaret Matron 45 F Ireland (my great grandmother and Evelyn's grandmother)

Coffey, Michael Child 10 M Ireland

Coffey, Tim Child 11 M Ireland (Evelyn’s father)

Coffey , Catherine Child 9 F Ireland

We know these to be our great grandmother Margaret, our grandmother Margaret, and her siblings Dan, Michael, Tim and Catherine. How I wish I had been able to find this while Tim’s only descendant, my cousin Evelyn, was alive!

S/S/Atlas

This is the ship on which the family came from Ireland to America. It is the S/S Atlas, built by J&G Thomson in 1860 at Glasgow, Scotland and sailed under the Cunard banner. Tonnage: 1,794. Dimensions: 274' x 36'.5. Single-screw, 10 knots. Geared oscillating engines. Three masts and one funnel. Iron hull. Compound engines in 1873. Lengthened to 339 feet (2,393 tons) in 1873. Masts reduced to two. (So the photo is as it was when this family sailed aboard it.) It was in service from 1860 to 1896. Scrapped in 1896. Sister ships: Hecla, Kedar, Marathon, Olympus and Sidon.

Most significantly, it sailed from Liverpool, England on April 25, 1883, stopped by Queenstown, Ireland where the Coffeys boarded, and arrived in Boston, MA, USA on 6 May 1883. The arrival is registered at Castle Garden, at the tip of the Battery in Manhattan, NY. The family of six traveled in steerage and brought six pieces of baggage with them.

Since they lived just north of the Kerry/Cork border, Queenstown would have been an easy port of exit for the Coffeys. Now called Cobh, it is located on the south shore of the Great Island in Cork Harbor, (reputed to be the second largest natural harbor in the world), on south-facing slopes overlooking the entrance to the harbor. It was called Queenstown from 1849 to 1922, to commemorate a visit from Queen Victoria.

Evelyn’s father Timothy is listed on the 1884 ship’s manifest as an 11-year-old boy, but his baptismal record in the Catholic church at Kenmare, County Kerry, Ireland says otherwise:

14 Oct 1866 - Timothy Coffey

Parents: Daniel Coffey and Margaret McCarty, Direen

Witnesses: John Coffey and Catherine Sullivan

Evelyn believed that her father was a world traveler, evidenced by little gifts he had brought to her and her sister. Too, she said he spoke like a Philadelphia lawyer. She wrote years later: I think I inherited my love of literature from my father. I understand he went to the University of Dublin with the intent of becoming a priest.

Tim Coffey died when his skull was fractured in an industrial accident in Cleveland in 1909. Evelyn was only two and her sister an infant, so her memories likely were wishful thinking or the embroidering of a sad young mother who sought to give her daughters something of their father to hold. He may well have traveled the world, perhaps as a ship hand, in the years between his immigration in 1884 and his marriage in 1907.

Sharing the Cousin I barely knew

CATHERINE EVELYN COFFEY (1907-2001) was my father's first cousin and the only surviving member of the family to bear the name. She never married and had children, but she did leave a vast number of mysterious and ethereal poems that both reveal and hide who she was. I only met her once, when I was a young teen, and I remain enchanted with my memories of her to this day. In this blog I'd like to share what I know of her and her poetry, and to invite others who knew her to add their memories.

I will begin with a simple biography I wrote for a book my brother and I are about to publish on our paternal ancestors, the Coffey and Flynn families. I will add to it in sections, to be continued.

CATHERINE EVELYN COFFEY

Born December 18, 1907 – Cleveland, Ohio

Baptized St. Colman’s December 29, 1907

with John and Jane Cooney as sponsors.

Died July 14, 2001 – Detroit, Michigan

I know so little about this lovely lady. I only met her once, in Boston in the summer of 1949 when I was fifteen and she was 42. She was less than five feet tall and at 5’9", I towered over her. She was delightful, bubbly, effervescent, and utterly fascinating.

In 1992, when I was deep into genealogy, I called and talked with her about family. She knew only bare facts and eventually I sent her narratives with what I had learned of the family.

Her father, Timothy D. Coffey, was my Grandmother Margaret Coffey Flynn’s baby brother, so Evelyn was my father’s first cousin. Evelyn never knew what the D. in his name represented. It is possible it was Daniel for his father, or it could have been Denis. Four of the five sons in the family had D. as a middle initial, and we only know that in the case of the oldest son, it stood for Denis.

Timothy apparently was the only Coffey sibling, other than my grandmother, who had children. He married Mary Jane Cooney on January 30. 1907, in Cleveland, Ohio. He called her "Mary Love," and they had two daughters, Evelyn and Rose. He died when the girls were quite small, and their yearning for the father they never knew is expressed quite poignantly in Evelyn's poem:

To my father

(who died too soon)

I don't know

where you are:

where lies the essence

that once was loved

as I am loved;

where stills the heart

that loved ---

in love to make me.

Breath and bone of you

I wear,

you whom I cannot

remember.

Dreams you knew,

you left me;

loves you felt,

I bear.

Death has not tamed

the wild heart

or chained the feet

with wings.

There is no where

for you to lie

except in me.

Evelyn Coffey

(Attached to a copy of this poem is this note. Was it written to her sister Rose?

“I wonder if you’ll like it, Honey. It’s the first time I’ve said anything to him, and the thought of it made me cry. All my love, Evelyn”)

Upon hearing of her baby brother's death, Maggie Coffey Flynn wrote to the sister-in-law she'd never met, inviting her to go to New Hampshire and live with her own family. Mary Jane did not accept the offer, but never forgot the kindness, and a correspondence ensued that evolved into love.

Mary Jane supported her girls working as a seamstress. During the summer while she worked, the girls attended a playground program near their home. Evelyn described herself and Rose as "dirty little girls on a playground," when a lady, Helen Jeanette Wheeler, found them. She was president of the Ballet Masters of America and arranged for the children to have dancing lessons as well as appropriate costumes for performances. Eventually she created a scholarship for Evelyn to go with her to dance in New York, where Evelyn performed. Evelyn was very tiny and must have been a beautiful dancer. When she was quite elderly, a neighbor in Detroit described how she came down the stairs, placing her feet like a dancer.